In two decades of legal strategy, I’ve seen brilliant cases won on law and lost on a single flaw: Ego. I call it E.E.G.O.—Edging God Out. When validation takes the driver’s seat, sound strategy is left behind. To win, you must learn the hardest courtroom skill of all: leaving your ego at the door.
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