The correct approach

EFFECTIVE STRATEGIES FOR SELF-LITIGATION

The negative press around the Family court is significant. If that were enough to work and produce better outcomes for families, it would have worked already.

Given our focus on the best outcomes for New Zealand children and their families, we don’t consider mediation, settlement or negotiated outcomes, a failure.

We have witnessed those who do, as simply “Wanting a fight” fueled by jealousy, vindictiveness and other harmful emotions left unchecked.

We by no means suggest you give up and don’t put forward a compelling and robust case promoting the best interests of your child. We do however, promote the analysis of your “why” before entering the Family Court.

We take the view that to diffuse potential trauma to the whole family is a powerful position to adopt. Successful mediation and settlements often involve compromise by both parties in the best interests of their children.

This is a win win win solution!!

This approach has led to our “Code of Conduct” policy that every self-litigant will have signed before completing our programme and entering the New Zealand Family court.

It is widely accepted that Family Court proceedings are a “tinderbox” situation and your self-restraint and patience will be well tested. The only thing that counts is your ability to calmly navigate your way through these choppy waters effectively for your children.

Stories of New Zealand Family Court users, are littered with the effects caused to their families of not taking this seriously enough.